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Raising Happy, Healthy Children I call myself expert at raising children no...
Raising Happy, Healthy Children I call myself expert at raising children no...
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2020-12-24
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Raising Happy, Healthy Children
I call myself expert at raising children not because I'm a psychologist, and not because I earned a degree in "parenting". I have been a father for nearly 20 years and have learned through trial and (1)A. errorB. mistakeC. wrongdoingD. shortcoming . My experience has shown me that a number of fashionable ideas about raising children that many of (2)A. beforeB. pastC. futureD. today's parents believe are actually damaging.
For example, nowadays parents often believe children should be the center of the family and a family should be a complete democracy. But (3)A. luckilyB. shortlyC. hardlyD, unfortunately , they quickly get into trouble. Their intention is to raise happy, healthy children, while (4)A. onB. inC. atD, while the contrary, their children become more and more disobedient and aggressive.
Parents often ask me; " (5)A. WhyB. HowC. WhatD. When can we get our children to obey?" My answer is simple and direct: "if you expect your children to obey, they will." I'm sure many American parents would say they do expect their children to obey. I'm (6)A. scarcelyB. terriblyC. equallyD. presently sure that many American children are not obedient.
This sony state of affairs is the (7)A.faultB. errorC. successD. achievement of parents who forever beat around the bush of obedience, lest they damage their child's supposedly fragile psyche: When parents plead, bargain, bribe, threaten, give second chances or "reason" with children, they are (8)A. demandingB. wishingC. agreeingD. inviting for -- not expecting -- obedience.
The most common form of wishing takes (9)A. formB. happenC. spaceD. place when parents argue with young children, Parents (10)A. sometimeB. sometimesC. some timeD. some times make decisions that the child doesn't like, and child screeches, "why?"
But this isn"t a question. It's an invitation to do battle. By (11)A. acceptingB. invitingC. ignoringD. rejecting the invitation, you step squarely into trouble. And you cannot win.
No matter how eloquent or correct your explanation, children can see only one point of view -- that is their own point of view. It is far better, without hint of threat or apology, to say simply, "Because I said so."
As a child, I couldn't (12)A. rememberB. bearC. understandD. challenge to hear those four words, and I promised myself I would never say them to my children.
I kept that promise until I came to the edge of disaster with my first child. From (13)A. thenB. nowC. thatD. those on, "Because I said so" became part of my vocabulary. Now my child is already a grown-up and he is smart, (14)A. determiningB. determineC. determinedD. determination and creative. Above all, he is happy and healthy all his growing time. If those words absolutely stick in your throat, try saying them. Because you're the parent and making decisions is your (15)A. targetB.jobC. hopeD. end . The fact is, a family is not, ultimately, a democracy. Eventually someone has to have the final say, and that someone better be an adult, or everyone is in trouble.
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【A. error】|【D. today's】|【D, unfortunately】|【A. on】|【B. How】|【C. equally】|【A.fault】|【B. wishing】|【D. place】|【B. sometimes】|【A. accepting】|【B. bear】|【A. then】|【C. determined】|【B.job】|
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